In a world where relationships seem increasingly fast, disposable and superficial, it's natural to wonder if there is still someone who has been prepared by God especially for you.

Is there really such a thing as the "right person"?
And if so, how do you know who she is?
More importantly, how do you wait for this meeting without getting lost along the way?

The answer may be simpler - and more profound - than you think: God doesn't just unite people. He unites purposes.

If you want a relationship that lasts, that makes sense, that grows in faith and maturity, you need to look for something greater than a simple emotional connection. You need to seek a relationship in line with God's plans.

Shall we talk about it calmly?

Relationships that are born with purpose are different

Everyone wants to love and be loved. But when love is based only on appearance, passing affinities or convenience, it doesn't stand the test of time.

Love born of purpose has deep roots. It is built not only on sentiment, but on mission.

  • It's when two people don't complete each other, but add up
  • When one helps the other to grow in faith, maturity and outlook on life
  • When the relationship brings the two closer to God - and doesn't push them apart

Relationships like this aren't perfect. But they are planted in the right place, with the right intentions.

1# The right person isn't the ideal one - it's the aligned one

There is no such thing as a perfect person. But there are people who makes sense with what God has dreamed for you.

It's someone who:

  • Respect your process
  • Walk in the same spiritual direction
  • It has similar values
  • It challenges you to grow - not to lose yourself
  • Love God more than he loves you

The right person is not the one who avoids conflictsbut who faces the difficulties with you, side by side, under grace.

2# God won't give you someone as long as you're just looking to fill a void

Many people want to find someone to feel complete, happy and validated. But true love cannot be born out of want.

Before God gives you someone, He wants you to understand your own value.

That you learn to:

  • Being well alone
  • Loving your identity in Christ
  • Taking care of your emotional health
  • Become someone you yourself would admire

You don't have to be ready, but you do have to be willing.

3# When you seek God, He aligns your relationships

Seeking God's will it's not giving up on love - it's choosing the right love.

Prayer changes your expectations.
Time with God changes your standards.
His presence changes your direction.

"But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." (Matthew 6:33)

When you put God at the center, He begins to adjust everything around him - including his dates.

4# Relationships according to God have purpose before passion

Yes, the heart races. The chemistry is there. So does the chill in the belly.
But it will all pass.

What sustains love in the long term it's not what you feel - it's what you build together.

And that starts with purpose. With vision. With firm values.

The relationship that comes from God does:

  • Prayer at the beginning
  • Respect in the middle
  • Commitment on the journey
  • Love that reflects the character of Christ

It's not a fairy tale. It's a daily choice.

5# Waiting for someone according to God is not standing still - it's getting ready

Waiting is not sitting back.
It's investing in yourself. It's seeking healing. It's growing in faith.
It's becoming the answer to the prayer you once prayed.

If you want someone with principles, be someone with principles.
If you want someone emotionally healthy, take care of your heart.
If you want a light relationship, live lightly with God.

Waiting time is not wasted time - it's preparation time.

How do you know if someone comes from God?

There is no "magic sign", but a few points can help you discern:

1# Do you walk in the same faith?
You can't build together if everyone is going in one direction.

2# Does the relationship bring you closer to or distance you from God?
The love that comes from God brings you closer to Him.

3# Is there peace, even with the challenges?
God confirms with peace. Even when there are struggles, you feel firm.

4# Is there respect and emotional maturity?
Without this, there is no foundation to stand on.

5# Do you pray together, dream together, grow together?
Healthy relationships are partnerships - not competitions.

What can you do until the right person arrives?

  • Pray sincerely, not in a hurry
  • Cultivate healthy and meaningful friendships
  • Work on your traumas and insecurities
  • Find contentment in your walk with God
  • Trust that the right time is better than the fast time

God unites purposes - not just feelings

And when He unites, nothing and no one can separate them.
The relationship according to God is firm, even in storms.
It's full of grace, even in its flaws.
It is sustained by prayer, truth and presence.

If today you still haven't found the right person, don't be discouraged.
Keep seeking God - and let Him take care of the meetings.

The heart can wait, but the promise never fails.

See also: 3 a.m. prayer for grace

April 10th, 2025